Let go of your need to judge others. Everyone is on their own journey. Let go of your need to judge others and focus on your own path. All these reasons why it can't happen are incompletions /pain patterns. Do the completion exercise, identity the incident when each pain pattern started. What happened? Write it down. Relive each incident at least 5 times. Allow everything that makes you powerless to come to the surface and leave your system. For instance, he tells you to "just keep telling yourself your painful story until you get bored with it" and then doesn't tell you what to do if you don't get bored with it... if it's still just as painful every time you think about it. Granted, that's what therapy is for and he DOES have a disclaimer to discuss this with your healthcare or mental health provider... but if I'm going to do that, why do I need your book, Purkiss?

Let go of your need to be attached to people. People come and go. Let go of your attachment to people and focus on the love you have for them.The Power of Letting Go brings together a number of key principles that come up for anyone who is on the journey of self-enquiry and development. At some point, the choice becomes clear, whether to hold on or let go. we manifest our beliefs, not our desires. Once you are complete, your beliefs and desires become one. Then your desires start to become reality. I shouldn't fight against the huge waves, as they would always be stronger than me and push me under. I should just collaborate with them. surrender isn't the same as giving up or doing nothing. It just means that we stop trying to make the world conform to our fixed ideas about how things should be. Analyze these reasons - usually they'll be irrational beliefs like "I'm not good at xxx", "If I couldn't do it before, why would I be able to do it now", etc.

we can divide desires into 3 categories :those come from ego, borrowed desires( part of our social and cultural conditioning), those arise naturally. It's very hard to stop thinking. It's better to give your mind something to do. Sit and relax, and bring your attention to your breath.

there are many reasons why people could disagree with you and still be rational : their values might be different from yours, you and they could have different assumptions,they might have had a different experience to you, they might have information that you don't have or that you have chosen to ignore.