Ik ben ok, jij bent niet-ok. Kans op winnaarsscript maar wel als een bazig type waardoor hij afgewezen kan worden door omgeving. ‘Paranoïde’ Child: Rooted in the past; a set of thoughts, feelings and behaviours learnt from our childhood. These can be free and natural or strongly adapted to parental influences. While there were many theories purporting to explain human behavior before Eric Berne, the most frequently cited and known is the work of Sigmund Freud. Freud emerged in the early 20th century with his theories about personality. Freud believed that personality had three components, all of which must work together to produce our complex behaviors. These three components or aspects were the Id, Ego, and the Superego. It was Freud’s belief that these three components needed to be well-balanced to produce reasonable mental health and stability in an individual. According to Freud, the Id functions in the irrational and emotional part of the mind, the Ego functions as the rational part of the mind, and the Superego can be thought of as the moral part of the mind, a manifestation of societal or parental values. Egotoestand = consistent patroon van voelen en ervaren dat direct samengaat met een overeenkomstig consistent patroon van gedragingen; samenstel van gedrag, gedachten en gevoel. It is worth noting that, while recording these events, the young child has no way to filter the data; the events are recorded without question and without analysis. One can consider that these events are imposed on the child.

Negatief aangepast kind: geleerde gedragingen als kind die niet meer passen bij volwassen situatie. Pruilen, terugtrekken,... hoofddoek TA is vervangen van achterhaalde patronen door nieuwe die gebruik maken van volwassen mogelijkheden.W Won 2 - 0 against Watford on October 4th 2023. L Lost 0 - 4 against Middlesbrough on October 7th 2023. L Lost 1 - 2 against Stoke City on October 21st 2023. L Lost 0 - 1 against Leicester City on October 24th 2023. W Won 3 - 1 against Norwich City on October 28th 2023. Although Berne made major contributions to the ego state theory, he did not coin the term ‘ego’ or ‘ego state’ as the word ‘ ego’ is Latin meaning ‘I’ or 'self'.

Als een transactie gekruist wordt, is een breuk in de communicatie het gevolg, en een of beide personen zullen hun aanvankelijke ego-toestanden moeten verlaten om de communicatie te herstellen. Ouder uitsluiten: handelen zonder regels, zonder scrupules. Sjacheraars, politici, zakenmensen, maffia These contributions by Penfield and Freud, as well as many others, were used by Berne as he developed his theories on Transactional Analysis and games. Transactions Defined Doe je best. Gebruikt vaak woord ‘proberen’, moeilijk, vragen, keelspieren aanspannen, hand naast oog of oor, vuisten gebald, zit voorovergebogen, maakt zich klein, knijpt wenkbrauwen samen tot verticale rimpels. Doe de ander een plezier. Zinnen van positief naar negatief (‘maar’), hoge stem, knikken met hoofd, uitgestoken handen, schouders hoog en naar voren gebogen, gezicht iets naar beneden, mond in gespannen glimlach.The importance of these non-verbal cues can be understood by considering the work of Dr. Albert Mehrabian. Berne passed away in 1970, before Mehrabian’s seminal work was published. But Mehrabian’s work quantitatively proved the importance of non-verbal cues in communication. According to Dr. Mehrabian, when an individual is speaking, the listener focuses on the following three types of communication: