That’d not to say he and I have no sex life, but it’s not as frequent as I would like, and he enjoys seeing me satisfied.

You can change your choices at any time by visiting Cookie preferences, as described in the Cookie notice. I don’t know why this time was so much different than all the other times he brought it up, but I just feel depressed and broken. I'm assuming that you have a similar orientation toward strict monogamy and so this was agreeable to you. The letter got my attention when he wrote it and it got my attention again when I ran across it in my private collection yesterday.If getting this fantasy filled is a bigger priority for him than anything else in his life and there's no way for him to adjust expectations, then you guys are probably not compatible for the long term and should split up. A band was playing a variety of music and after a couple of songs she leaned over close to me and asked me if I would like to dance. Concentrate as much as you can on making this something that, years from now, you'll recognize was a moment of growth and positive repositioning for you.

I've posted nearly 900 answers here, and in nearly all of them I've tried to recast the problem as something other than a problem. Some of the older couples we play with prefer dating sites (these are our favorite cuck dating sitesto enjoy) where they can meet couples their own age and some also use dating sites to find younger guys who like older women, as there are plenty of them. She told me that she had retired about a year ago and that during her entire marriage she had never engaged in any sexual encounters. This isn't like "Try this butt plug once and see if you like it," this is "Please do something you will probably hate that will leave an indelible effect on how you feel about yourself, forever.Everything else that's going on here is stemming from your husband's fear of being cheated on and what being cheated on symbolizes about his qualities and selfworth. When I could feel her tensing at a pending orgasm I would lick up over her pubic mound or across her inner thigh delaying her orgasm. She was dressed in a dark blue dress that fell below her knee and the top was buttoned up to the collar.

When you explain it this way, it makes it sound like you're just nervous about it, or not quite ready yet or something. So he pressured her into going to a key party, where his current girlfriend and her husband would be. Normally I don't think what people are into the bedroom has any particular reflection on who they are as people or how they are outside of it, but his contempt and disregard for you as a unique person with feelings pervades every single behavior of his you've described.Another mid 40's couple we had met at a few LS gatherings messaged me yesterday and she told her hubby she wants to play with me.

I don't know if you can or want to do this (after all, his attitude toward you w/re this issue has tainted the topic), but maybe there is some means by which to find a way for him to get a little of what he is after without you having to compromise yourself. If he doesn't want to, then give him all the time he could possibly want to fester with his ridiculous no-win fantasies. Because - there was this guy I used to work with, years back, and to make a long story short, he and his wife had a foursome with another couple and he simply could not handle it. But, of course, always it was the sweetest part of a complete, sexually exciting and loving marriage.Before she knows it, innocent little Laura is begging to get pounded, filled, and stuffed full of ALL THREE bosses, hard and with no protection , in front of a new audience, and ALL while her husband watches! What if you tell him fictional stories about how you fucked another guy at work during lunch or something? You told and showed him how much you don't like, how just the mention of it irritates you and goes beyond into being being deliberately hurtful. I would definitely lay it on thick and bluntly tell him that he is asking you to be someone you can't be, that it's disrespectful, and that it's damaging the marriage. I agree with everyone else that this guy is being really disrespectful, and that this behavior is potentially grounds for a divorce.